[SPARK-51699][BUILD] Upgrade to Apache parent pom 34

[vrozov]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Upgrade Apache parent pom from version 18 to the latest version 34 along with upgrading few maven plugins versions to match those from the latest parent pom.

• maven-enforcer-plugin from 3.3.0 to 3.5.0
• maven-compiler-plugin from 3.11.0 to 3.14.0
• maven-surefire-plugin from 3.1.2 to 3.5.2
• maven-jar-plugin from 3.3.0 to 3.4.2
• maven-source-plugin from 3.3.0 to 3.3.1
• maven-clean-plugin from 3.3.1 to 3.4.1
• maven-javadoc-plugin from 3.5.0 to 3.11.2
• maven-assembly-plugin from 3.6.0 to 3.7.1
• maven-shade-plugin from 3.5.0 to 3.6.0
• maven-install-plugin from 3.1.1 to 3.1.4
• maven-deploy-plugin from 3.1.1 to 3.1.4
• maven-dependency-plugin from 3.6.0 to 3.8.1

Why are the changes needed?

Apache parent pom version 18 is 15 years old.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No

How was this patch tested?

maven build with Java 8 and Java 17

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No

not for master

[yaooqinn]

Hi @vrozov, thanks for the PR.

However, I have already merged #50500 to master/4.1.0.
I guess this PR won't be necessary as those related artifacts are all related to the build and release phases.

[vrozov]

Hi @yaooqinn, the PR targets 3.5.x releases (branch-3.5).

[vrozov]

@yaooqinn IMO, it will be beneficial to update 3.5 branch and build to use Apache parent pom that is not 15 years old.